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Where We Place Our Love
Who would I be without these things that had always offered me comfort, no matter how short-lived? The answer is who I’ve always been, before I was told not to be. And if we are to share the love that we’ve always craved, we have to start with coming back to ourselves. The only home that ever mattered.
Whose Voice?
When I love someone, I value them so much, I absorb their words and opinions too much. Words become ideas. Ideas become our reality. It’s a scary thing when something so easily put out into the world can venture and change so much of our internal world. And once it’s in there, it’s so hard to get out.
The Fallacy of Worry
Fear is restrictive. Love is expansive. And what that means is, to love someone well, is to provide a really big space, a giant football field-sized space, for them to learn and grow.
What to do with thoughts we don’t love
Sometimes, thoughts can creep up on you. Like me on my sister. Here’s what you can do with them.
Reactivity and Reawakening
She asked us what Lady’s favorite things were. The answer was simple, and not too far from my own: Noah and food.
